Y wife of 16 years had an affair. I kicked her out and I kept the kids. Long story short, the guy ended up beating the crap out of her causing a concussion , bruising and swelling. He drug her around her apartment for an hour. After he was done he told her that if she went to the cops he would kill me and my kids. She obviously went to the cops and now they are awaiting trial. I am sooo pissed about the affair, her leaving the kids with me full time, and him beating the mother of my children like if she was a man.l and she’s only 5’ 100 lbs. I feel like a sucker for. It kicking his ass when I found out and even more so for not kicking his sass after what he did to her